Monday, June 12, 2006

The Eastern Rule of Thumb

Pretty amazing what happens to the social norm in just 75 years. For example here in China:

"The accepted attitude of a man towards his wife was summed up in the old saying: a wife should be treated like a horse--driven and beaten regularly. If any husband didn't beat his wife, people thought he was afraid of her."

Another solid family tradition included:

"After a girl was married she was scolded and beaten by her mother-in-law. When she grew older and became a mother-in-law herself, she scolded and beat her daughter-in-law in turn. If she behaved any other way, she wouldn’t be considered a proper mother-in-law."

So basically in their Buddhist context, if you were a woman back then you keep your fingers crossed that in your next life you're reincarnated somewhere between a cricket, a horse, or a toenail.
At least they don't have to bind and wrap their feet anymore like a bad masochistic Christmas gift.

Happy thoughts from Jinan!

--dt willy

2 comments:

Stina said...

i tried to email you after your last message, but it's not letting me send you anything. my letters get rejected by the server...maybe it has something to do with all the references to "those commi bastards" ??? anyway things are well, i had some really funny pictures for you. alas. do you have another email address?

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